Hmm…do you see yourself dating someone who is new to dating, someone who has never dated anyone in their life before?
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Hmm…do you see yourself dating someone who is new to dating, someone who has never dated anyone in their life before?
For me, I wouldn’t at all. One of the basic qualifying criteria for me, is experience. You see, I have had my fair share of experience. I don’t have the time, energy or patience to be with someone who has no experience. People without experience are not likely to know their own selves. They aren’t likely to have clarity over their own needs, desires and will lack the relationship skills that are required to make the relationship work. I’ve been through inexperience. I’ve made mistakes and learnt my lessons. I obviously still learn. Yet, I am not interested anymore in wading through the same waters. I won’t be a good match for someone with no experience. Makes no sense to waste either of our times.
I would say it all depends on where you are coming from and what you want from your spouse. for one, although I have a vast prior experience in a relationship would gladly date a greenhorn. However, such an individual irrespective or her age must be able and willing to learn and adjust. The most daunting task to accomplish is that of you trying to teach someone who is not ready to learn. Nothing is written in stone. If you opt for an experienced lover because you don’t have the time to teach him or her from the scratch, then he will transfer his or her perceived inadequacies that made him or she lost his or her former relationship to you. For you to have a successful relationship with an inexperienced lover. You need a lot of patience, understanding and communication. You only need to put certain things in order. For example, you must endeavour to study and research that person.: know his real personality, his or her dislike, idiosyncrasies, and fear. In the alternative, dating an experienced lover is not foolproof to a successful relationship.