I can like someone and we’d relate so well until they just start showing off some funny behaviors. No matter how well I relate with someone, those behaviors will definitely chase me away. Most times, I don’t tell them about it, I just stop talking to them. I don’t like pretending, and I believe I don’t owe people explanations for my decisions. If I see some toxic traits in you, traits that can affect my mental peace, I just stop talking to you immediately. It’s all for my peace and happiness.
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I just can’t stand the sight of people that talk too much. Uuurgggh! They talk too much that say everything. You cannot tell these kind of people anything, they will always talk about it intentionally or accidentally.
Some people are committed to making you feel you’re doing too much for yourself. I love looking all dressed up, fine makeup, good shoes, nice hair and all. If you always pass comment like “Marie, that dress is too shiny. Marie, that necklace is too long…marie, those shoes…Marie, your makeup…” Stop it! “Don’t Marie me pls”💀
I don’t know if this is strange but I cringe when I see people eat lots of food, that’s really a huge turn off for me. It’s their body, it’s their stomach, yeahhhhh. But it’s my decision too. Lol
If you think your moral standards are better than mine, what exactly are we doing together. We clearly can not relate.
Lies! I honestly can’t stand people that lie. If I know you lie to people, it only means you’ve lied to me severally too. Simply don’t talk about it if you don’t want anyone to know about it. Save yourself the stress.
Different strokes for different folks, I have so many things I watch out for in people. It’s not like I’m anything close to being perfect myself. Anyway, the following are the things people consciously or unconsciously do that tend to negatively affect my perception about them;
1. Heavy cologne. Use your cologne in a proper moderation, you don’t need to choke me with it.
2. Dirty apartment-whether I’m visiting you for the first time or not, if I meet your apartment in a dirty state, I will never accept to drink let or eat during my visitation. And of course, ain’t ever coming back to your place.
3. I love dark humors. If you have a dead sense of humor, that’s a no no for me.
4. Talking about people behind their backs. That’s gossiping, it only means you are scared of them and cannot say it to their faces.
5. Constantly complaining a toxic partner yet you still stay with them in the relationship.
6. You cannot be corrected. If you don’t take to corrections or you feel corrections are like insults, then there is definitely a problem.
7. Claiming little “miss or mr perfect”
8. You see every discussion as an opportunity to argue
9. Dirty fingernails.
10. Being indifferent on matters you should have a take on.