I don’t like that my neighbor plays too very loud music, how do I make him stop as it disturbs me a lot.
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I don’t like that my neighbor plays too very loud music, how do I make him stop as it disturbs me a lot.
This is a very simple and yet, tactical situation. First, go and see your neighbor, let him or her know about your discomfort and how their very loud music affects you. You may let them know you’re a stay at home person or you work from home, I’m sure they will reason with you. If that doesn’t work, call the attention of police. Honestly, some people could be funny at times, really. Tactical situations call for tactical measures. But he sure to speak to them first, if you do not see changes, then you involve the police.
It sounds like a cliché, but it’s usually good to talk to your neighbours. One in three people have found that this has solved any problems immediately. Surprisingly often, people do not even realise they are being annoying and few people are totally uncaring about those around them; most are just unaware. With most people, being calm and reasonable gets better results than being confrontational. You have the moral high ground; make sure you keep it.
When you approach them, it is a good idea to have three examples of when they were excessively noisy to hand, complete with dates. Tell them too how the noise affected you, but don’t be accusatory. You should also specifically tell them how you would like the problem solved. If you feel unsafe you should approach your neighbours with a friend or family member.