my husband cheated with the maid and said she cooks for him that is why, it was his idea to get the maid, he pays her to cook, I am lost and confused.
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my husband cheated with the maid and said she cooks for him that is why, it was his idea to get the maid, he pays her to cook, I am lost and confused.
My divorce attorney’d say that divorce brings out the worst in people..it’s very true, because emotions run high. Unfortunately, some get blinded during the process and in efforts to feel vindicated, may try to somehow justify their actions. Children more often than not get pulled into the ugliness of it all, and become pawns. You have to ask yourself if you’re really doing this to punish your soon-to-be ex husband, or ‘for the betterment’ of your child/children. Do what’s right by your kids. They deserve their father’s time, love and attention just as much as they do yours..
My divorce attorney would say that divorce brings out the worst in people..it’s very true, because emotions run high. Unfortunately, some get blinded during the process and in efforts to feel vindicated, may try to somehow justify their actions. Children more often than not get pulled into the ugliness of it all, and become pawns. You have to ask yourself if you’re really doing this to punish your soon-to-be ex husband, or ‘for the betterment’ of your child/children. Do what’s right by your kids. They deserve their father’s time, love and attention just as much as they do yours..
To err is human maid must have seduced him or he must have watched her moves which trigger his sensual feeling. Do warn him once if he repeats just sign him off in a legal paper. Make this clear to him for a month make him work in the kitchen so he wont repeat it lifelong do not use this to harass him every time, then he will be out searching for a professional maid.
In case if you ask me what if vice versa happen will the husband forgive Here I am tell to forgive once since the maid can take advantage for filing a complaint for rape and can demand huge sum or ransack the peace.