Why can’t my boyfriend take up all the bill, instead him wanting us to go dutch?
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Why can’t my boyfriend take up all the bill, instead him wanting us to go dutch?
Some men will not let you share bills with them, while some expect that you take up some part of the bill even if it’s not 50/50. Dutch or alternate, it should never be just one person. But men usually don’t agree to the idea of women paying the bills. They mostly refuse the offer. Maybe you can buy him something he needs or get the plane tickets, something to just show your own efforts too. The idea is to contribute equally. Because it’s not a men-driven world anymore.
It is important for both the partners to know have budget and know about the costs of their expenses. For example, if one partner is rich and the other is from a middle-class background, then it could become a budget issue. In such cases, decide on a place that’s easy on the pocket for both of you. But, if the partner who is more well-off decides on a 5-star property, better let them pay. So, at least money wouldn’t be a bone of contention in your relationship.