Is it really an act of deceit when you don’t make your partner know that you’re transgender?
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Is it deceitful when you don’t tell your partner you’re transgender?
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Is it really an act of deceit when you don’t make your partner know that you’re transgender?
First, I am for gay rights of marriage and adoption. I am not for any person deceiving another. I don’t care what you choose to call yourself. If I were talking with someone and we choose to go to the next level and date- If they are not by birth the gender they are representing. I feel it is definitely time to tell me before I even kiss you. It is very very wrong to think for one second it is okay to lie your way into what you want. It definetly does not show respect, concern, most definetly is not an act of love to lie. You don’t want anyone violating your human rights with their choices and opinions, don’t force yours on them. Big chance that he doesn’t mind, but don’t take away his right to choice. You want your peace and tranquility to be comfortable and happy in this life. So, be understanding and don’t take someone else’s rights to what they want for themselves!
I would only tell them if there’s a reason. At this point I will tell anyone who becomes a close friend, and should I start dating someone I would certainly tell them before things get so intimate. Otherwise there needs to be a compelling reason. If there isn’t it’s none of their business, just as you wouldn’t discuss your medical history, or anything else highly personal.