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Can it be considered a red flag if your partner only have your time at nights and never during the day? You know their job isn’t so choked up that they won’t have time to communicate during the day, they only choose to communicate at night. Is this a red flag?
It could be that you’re not exclusive and that they’re seeing other persons. It’s possible they may even be treating you as a last resort, turning to you only if and when the other people they’re pursuing turn them down. But this is only a possibility! They may not value you or your relationship and may be a user. If you are also using them, then maybe you two are more like ‘friends with benefits’ and nobody needs to get hurt.
It really depends i if your partner is a really person during the day. If they are your partner and the relationship is healthy, you should already know their routine and background. If they only works during the day, then it’s only nights they have to chat with you, which I think it’s cool since they’re making an effort. You didn’t really give much information to base an answer on, so I’m just guessing here. But if you have suspicions about your partner’s intentions, which seems to be the case since you are writing this question in an open forum, you might want to sit down with and have a sincere conversation about your feelings. I wish you well🤩