First, I really hope she wouldn’t see this. I feel like an asshole right now, I’ve been feeling like that for a while and I don’t like me like this too. I lose interest in the relationship already. I know three years isn’t a joke, 3years is her life, 3years of mine too. I can’t keep up with the charade, and I don’t know how to tell her.
How do I tell my girlfriend of 3years that I don’t love her anymore? I’m just not into the whole relationship again.
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Hi Ashton, it’s totally fine if you feel that way. Instead of trying to sling the relationship along with lies, you decided to call your partner and talk things through. What’s the way forward now? Get the two of you a time together, do the things that made you two fall in love with each other at first. Clear your mind, laugh and play together. All these might rekindle the love, but if this does not work, then it’s time you sit her down and talk to her. She’s entitled to knowing how you feel as the relationship isn’t just about one person, and if you don’t feel the love for her anymore, there’s no need being in that relationship again. Give each other space, see how things work out.
Love, Arya.
Woahhhhh…you could’ve just asked posted the question anonymously instead of get scared she might see it. I’d ask why you decided to end it all after three years, but that wouldn’t be necessary. Clearly the problem is with you, and not the lady. I hope you tell the poor lady ASAP so she could know what’s going on. How do y’all do this though? Y’all just wake up one day and end something cos you ain’t feeling it no more? Well, I’d advise you let her know on time and stop wasting her precious time. And of course, work on yourself.