Everyone admires a self-confident person. Self-confident people seem at ease with themselves and their work. It’s an attractive characteristic.
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Everyone admires a self-confident person. Self-confident people seem at ease with themselves and their work. It’s an attractive characteristic.
Change your point of view towards things. Remember, being confident is a state of mind. It does not necessarily depend on external things. While I do not know the particulars about you, I am sure you have good qualities that you just don’t realize. For example, the very fact that you acknowledged your weakness and sought guidence to improve yourself,tells me that you are selfaware. Many peeople aren’t! There, that’s something to be proud of! I suggest you start with the following;
-Exercise
-Read inspirational/self help books
-Listen to music
-Watch inspirational movies
-Declutter/simplify your life
-Get away from negativity, Negative negative situations, negative emotions.
-Enhance your personality
-Find out the things that you enjoy doing and do them
-Wear good clothes. You don’t need to spend a lot of money on them, just wear what you feel comfortable in and something that looks and fits nicely. Clothes you wear can have a lot of effect on you. Seek advice or help from friends if you are not good at this. Spend some money on a few decent clothes that you will wear regularly. Think of it as an investment not as a waste of money. Quality always pays.
-Acquire new skills. For example, creative writing, public speaking, coding etc.
-Be good and do good. Treat people with respect and be genuine, be kind do whatever good you can. For example, help a stranger out by showing him an address etc.
One cannot deny that self-confidence is a very important quality to achieve success in life. Confidence is a quality that lies in everyone, less in someone or more in someone. But it is necessary to increase your present level of confidence to a new and better level. And I will share with you some similar things which can be helpful in increasing your self-confidence;
Improve Dressing sense: The way you dress-up affects your confidence. I myself have realized this thing, when I am in my best attire then my confidence automatically increases, that is why whenever I have a presentation or interview, I prepare very well. Actually, looking good gives you confidence to face people and on the contrary, you are very conscious on dressing up poorly. Do as much as you spend on clothes, but only buy half of the clothes you buy. You too can adopt it.
Do what confident people do: Such people will definitely be seen around you, seeing that you will feel that this person is very confident. Look at such people carefully and include some of their activities in your life.