Please note that this person is an unwanted guest. How do y’all go to people’s houses without letting them know? I really need this person out of my house without making them feel bad. Any idea?
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Please note that this person is an unwanted guest. How do y’all go to people’s houses without letting them know? I really need this person out of my house without making them feel bad. Any idea?
You can tell them that you have to go out and you have something to do in the outside. It’s your home, so, you can choose who deserve to stay or visit your home. Whenever they don’t deserve or I feel uncomfortable if certain friends visit my home, I just say “I’m sorry, I will go outside cause I have something important to do” or “My relatives will visit my home tonight, so if you stay around in my home, you will be disturbed.”
This happened to me recently. A friend was at my place and he forgot his wristwatch, he alerted me few days later that his friend would help get it. I was to step out and give the watch to his friend, to my surprise when I got outside my apartment, there was my friend standing. I wasn’t expecting anyone that day plus I wasn’t in a great mood. He entered, gave him his watch. I expected him to leave, he did not. I was so uncomfortable, and the last thing I’d allow anyone do to me isn’t make me uncomfortable in my own house. He even ordered a takeout from a nearby restaurant. I couldn’t take it anymore, I had to text a friend of mine to fake a call and act like we had a place to be urgently. That was what saved me, he had no choice than to leave even without asking him to.