I am really a very sexual person and I love to explore. I’ve been fantasizing swinging for a while now but I don’t know how to tell my partner.
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I am really a very sexual person and I love to explore. I’ve been fantasizing swinging for a while now but I don’t know how to tell my partner.
The truth is, most women love to explore and until you’ve had that discussion with her in a very free manner without you judging, you really wouldn’t know. This sounds like a discussion you ought to have had during the dating stage. I have talked about my fantasies for years. While on vacation my wife asked me if I would like to hire a girl for a threesome and we both enjoyed the hell out of it and over time had several more and my wife became openly Bi. Years later we went to Hedonism and played around with others in the pool and spa, on our 2nd trip there we went full in on swapping and had a blast. For the first time I saw my wife fuck another guy and it was mind blowing. I loved watching her. We are really more into 3somes than swapping and all of our 3somes have been really lit.
If you feel unable to sit down and say this directly, I doubt you should be swinging at all. Such a lifestyle requires an enormous amount of trust and willingness to be honest with each other. A lot of talking, and a lot of cooperative boundary construction which respects each ones needs and desires. If your communication is this poor that you had to be asking how to approach on an online platform, I would not enter the swinging lifestyle at all. It sounds like a recipe for disaster.