How do you deal with sudden disappearance from someone-no calls, no texts. They just vanished into thin air.
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Ghosting is incredibly painful because you get a taste of something good and then it suddenly don’t have access to it anymore without any explanation. And the worst part? You have no idea why it happened. I’ve had my share of that painful feeling and it was such a terrible moment…yes, I was hurt. I was so hurt, I texted and called everyday until I accepted the fact that they might not come back. I had to leave my city to stay with a cousin, I really needed that distraction. I enrolled in a dancing class, I got busy with that, and before I knew what was happening, I had forgotten about who ghosted me. Not a permanently anyway because I still thought of them once in a while. But surprisingly I didn’t dwell on it anytime the thought crosses my mind. When I returned to my place, I was totally back to my normal self. I had to register for another dance class around me as I ended up loving it. That was how I handled the situation. It worked for me, it can work for you too.
Allow yourself to hurt—but do not beat yourself to it, you’re most likely not the reason they left. You can talk about it to someone you know will understand you, talking to someone about a bothering issue lightens up the burden. Then, find something you like doing—things that make you happy. Do those things that make you happy. Put your energy in productive activities, it will help you heal. Stay healthy