Imposter syndrome is a phenomenon characterized by distorted thinking that makes people who are capable and intelligent believe they’re incompetent and unintelligent. They think of themselves as frauds and are constantly fearful of being exposed. People who suffer from imposter syndrome struggle with persistent feelings of self-doubt and negative self-talk. They also tend to blame themselves for failures, even when other factors are involved. Very often a person with imposter syndrome feels isolated and pressured. In my experience, certain cultures that stress high academic achievement and levels of accomplishment can also influence the development of the syndrome in individuals. Therapy, especially cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), is recommended for people who struggle with imposter syndrome to address faulty thinking and belief patterns. Talking with a mentor in your field that understands the demands of your job can also be helpful.

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