I don’t see how non-disabled people can say that disabled people will be just like them in heaven, when everybody has or will have something wrong with them before they die. What I envision is that I will be young, healthy, attractive and will have nothing wrong with me (either physically or mentally) to keep me from fully enjoying the new life that I will then have. As will everybody. Death, disability, illness, sickness are all part of the fall. So how can they be part of our new lives in heaven? Now I’m not deaf, but I envision that that the deaf person, who is part of the deaf culture and identifies that way here on earth, will be able to hear and will no longer have a need to identify with a special group in heaven. We will all be part of the family of God!

There are no things you should not tell your therapist. The idea of psychotherapy is that you are in a safe place, in a trusting, safe relationship with your psychotherapist, and can and should say everything, without concern of being condemned. I have always clearly stated to every patient in psychotherapy that everything they say stays in that office, that they have a physician patient confidentiality, and that they should speak freely, without editing or censoring.
That enables them to develop trust in me, in the therapeutic relationship, and make progress. It seems clear that some therapists are not comfortable with sexual feelings, romantic feelings, and aggressive thoughts and feelings. Those are all normal, and normal components of psychotherapy. They are not awkward, but rather, normal components, and are dealt with therapeutically, not acted on.
Part of being in psychotherapy is knowing one can say anything, and no actions will take place. We strive to understand our thoughts and feelings. Acting on them is something separate and different. By not having the therapist act on what is said, innermost thoughts and feelings can be openly explored.