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why do people stay in unhappy relationships?
Unhappy relationships don't start out bad, they start out wonderful. It's a part of the cycle of abuse. Many abusers use isolation, such as cutting people off from their friends, and family; then they use monetary isolation making it impossible for them to leave financially. Then we have the threatsRead more
Unhappy relationships don’t start out bad, they start out wonderful. It’s a part of the cycle of abuse. Many abusers use isolation, such as cutting people off from their friends, and family; then they use monetary isolation making it impossible for them to leave financially. Then we have the threats of violence, to selves, spouses and children. There are many reasons, and it is never just as easy as leaving. People tend to become comfortable with routine, even if the routine is horrible and destructive. If you know you’re going to come home and have an argument every day, eventually that becomes your comfort zone. People will stay within their comfort zone because change is unknowable. The devil you know is better than the devil you don’t.
See lessHow do you make a relationship work out fine?
There is a lot of serious work and effort that go into making a relationship work, that is why before you even think you want to put in effort and the work, your special person must be willing to do the same. Put in a lot of effort. Real love has labour attached. You should both be actively trying tRead more
There is a lot of serious work and effort that go into making a relationship work, that is why before you even think you want to put in effort and the work, your special person must be willing to do the same. Put in a lot of effort. Real love has labour attached. You should both be actively trying to better the other’s life — the suggestion about anticipating needs is solid. Empathize and put yourself in their shoes and ask what you’d want done for you, and go do that thing. The longest and best relationships I’m aware of have all had a lot of work put into them. Talk about things as soon as they’re things and before they are problems, but give yourself some space to think it over before saying something. I like to set irritations aside for at least 24h; sleeping on it either reveals something as trivia not worth mentioning, or gives me time to figure out what some constructive, compromise-oriented solutions might be.
See lessDoes the situation of Nigeria contribute to why many nigerians are scammers?
The Nigerian government has been involved in it even and, allows it to happen by not cooperating with police of other countries who want to investigate. Their post system is corrupt because they know stolen items go through it which have been stolen from Brits and Americans. It's known because of goRead more
The Nigerian government has been involved in it even and, allows it to happen by not cooperating with police of other countries who want to investigate. Their post system is corrupt because they know stolen items go through it which have been stolen from Brits and Americans. It’s known because of government involvement and simply because they receive stolen goods to their home addresses, they know nothing will happen. I mean, what do you expect from a country who has security agents that pose as robbers to raid people’s houses only to steal information?
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