I aged out 7 months ago, I will be 19 soon. I kinda think my parents wants me out but have really figured how to tell me yet. Hence, their hostility.
If my parents constantly nag and complain at the slightly situations, does that mean they want me to leave?
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If you’re above the age of consent, find yourself a new home and move. It’s their house— they pay the bills, they pay the mortgage. The have no legal obligation to house you if you’re classed as an adult. If you’re still a minor, then they’re legally obliged to find you an alternative home with a responsible adult.
First, you have to be sure that they really want you out. They probably are just trying to correct you or something. Some parents tend to have a hard time dealing with their children, some don’t even know how to relate to them properly. Hence, their actions are always misunderstood.
If truly your parent wants you out of their house you have no option but to move. Make a plan for moving out and come to an agreement with your parents on exactly when you will be out of the house. Look for a place that you can afford to live in – possibly in shared accommodation. Whatever disagreements you have with your parents, this will all go much more smoothly if you can be civil And they may be more accommodating if they can see you are making an effort. Assuming you are an adult, they do not owe you anything. Do not deliberately delay the process of moving out even though it may be a little daunting. Moving out will help you grow as a person so try to look at it positively.