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I don’t know what classifies to be “stranger” but this person, I’ve never met him before. We had met on the plane last summer when I was traveling to San Francisco. We exchanged contacts and we’ve been in touch since then. Got a call from him two nights ago saying he’s in NYC. I’ve always wanted to meet him but now that I’m face with that reality, I’m not sure I want to, let alone meet him in his hotel room.
As you really do not know the mind of every individual, I’d say you two should reschedule your choice of place to meet. You see, agreeing to meet him for the first time in his hotel room can send a lot of signals to him, he could get misinformed and I don’t think you would want that to happen to you.
That’s a big NO. Never meet a stranger in a hotel room. You should always meet up with a stranger in an open place (public places to be precise). Y’all might’ve been talking over the months, it still doesn’t erase the fact that you do not really know this person. You could meet in a restaurant, park or some other cool oublic places. You could think he’s nice, gentle and cool and he turns out not to be. You just need to be on the safe side.