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Whenever I think about my friends, they have one thing in common— always busy. All of my friends are always doing something. Whether it’s going out after work, going swimming, going to the movies, or just hanging out in general. I’m never invited. If I want to hang out with people, I always have to ask people if they want to, and they’re always busy.
You need to understand that not everyone is same as you. Everything is different and that’s why they are unique. So, you should be very clear about the fact that nobody in this world is like you. You are unique in your own and if you know this fact then your problem is already solved. As you are not like anyone else so nobody could care you the way you do. They care or do not care it’s their own nature and you have to accept this. When you start expecting from others to care for you but your expectations are not fulfilled you get hurt, which is wrong. Nobody’s behaviour could affect you if you start accepting the people as they are and stop expecting from them to care you. You are enough to care for yourself. Nobody else can care for you more than you yourself. Start accepting and Stop expecting . Gradually, you will start enjoying your own company & will become more strong and confident. And by practicing this you will become independent and you will stop depending on someone else for anything.
Most people think of themselves first. There is a lot of competition in this world. Finding good friends is hard. If you care about others it’s because you have empathy. There are some people like you maybe your friends are not the best that you can find. I would suggest to try to extend your social circle. In general, the former are more open to differences than the latter. More over, science is kind of elitism in a sort of way. I remember guidance counsellor telling me that science would open more doors for me in the future career wise than studying humanities.
In the end, you study what you really want. If you’re good at it, you can be successful. You just have to find people that have the same interest as you.