The rate of divorce these days is really alarming. You’d ask yourself why the couple got married in the first place. Why is this?
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We are living in a fast paced world, where everything is becoming easier to handle. Quick fixes and shortcuts continue to make life a breeze. Unfortunately, people have started applying these shortcuts to marriage too. This, coupled with lack of gravity and dedication in handling relations is leading to breakdowns.
People get married with a whole lot of fanfare and dreams. Initially they are willing to go to extra lengths to bond with that special person. There’s a lot of emotional investment from both the parties. But as time passes, a lackadaisical attitude creeps in. The spouse is taken for granted and this doesn’t bode well for the relationship.
That’s because most people are quite immature and don’t even know themselves. They marry based on an incomplete understanding of compatibility. Or they go with their parents choice and most parents don’t actually know which spouse is compatible for their child. Therefore as time passes, the two people grow apart mentally and the incompatibilities start becoming a strain. In cases where couples were lucky enough to have met their most compatible match, the marriages are happy and they are the ones who go about judging others for not working on their marriages. They don’t realize how smooth their own marriage is and how rough it is when you and your partner differ on core values. People who eventually decide that their mental health is more important, split up. People who think that they have no option, stick together unhappily.