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Often times, we see how people who seem to be intelligent and all fail woefully at figuring out their lives. These are people that help others with advices and life nuggets that help them navigate through life.
Just the way people who constantly see faults in other people do not see theirs. It is very easy and maybe refreshing dishing out advices to others, when you are always giving advice to people, they see you as being intelligent all round. And that for you to be giving them such good advices, you must have everything figured out well for yourself already. But this is not always so, I have a cousin who always come to through for everyone. Really, whenever anyone has an issue and you call her, she simply has a solution for it. Merely seeing her, if you don’t know her from anywhere, you wouldn’t want to be associate with her. She’s a junkie, druggie and all sorts. But she gives the best advice. I bet she’s advices people not to do drugs, whereas she does it. Lol.
I can relate to this so well. It’s so much easier to point it out to others and land on them the bearing to execute, it feels just so good. It does not matter anymore what you do, you’ve already done your part, given a valuable opinion. Many people are like that. It’s an easy cop out, it makes you feel self important without any risks or efforts.