Do husbands love their wives less after they have kids? Isn’t it supposed to be the other way round? Like the love is supposed to multiply—when a woman you love and married gives birth to your children.
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Do husbands love their wives less after they have kids? Isn’t it supposed to be the other way round? Like the love is supposed to multiply—when a woman you love and married gives birth to your children.
I am always faced with this question everywhere, I think it’s a common thing for new mothers. When my wife had our first child, she had same issue. I think it’s just something that brew it or lack of insecurity, because of how your body might have changed due to to pregnancy and child birth. I remember my wife asking me if she wasn’t too wide, she was always looking for solutions to make herself get more tightened. I got kind of upset one day, and I said something nasty to her. I went out, when I got back, I sat her down and talked to her. If anything, I love you more, for birthing our child. It’s a privilege. And it is a beautiful thing. To make her happy and assure her I don’t love her less, we both enrolled in a gym class and we did it until she was gained her confidence back. I also encouraged her to wear makeup if it makes her feel more beautiful.
I think it depends on his intention for the marriage. If he married his wife because of her looks, there is possibility to love his wife less when she starts giving birth. Imagine your former hot and beautifull wife with beautifull dress and make up welcome you wearing her worn off pajamas, tousled hair as if she didn’t ever comb her hair for days, and smell like onion, garlic or even fresh fish? Or even her babies pee? Quite a disaster isn’it it? What if her wife looks so exhausted every time the husband looks at her face? Or what if the wife looks fatter and less sexy? However, if the husband married his wife because he admire her attitude and intelligence, and he love her unconditionally, the presence of children doen’t mater. If he’s loves you beyond having his children, your shape or look won’t matter to him when you start giving birth.