I’ve just been dumped over a text and I don’t know how to reply, what to say to him. Just staring at my phone for the past 4days I got the text.
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I’ve just been dumped over a text and I don’t know how to reply, what to say to him. Just staring at my phone for the past 4days I got the text.
Actually, I’ve never received such text but I did send a relationship ending text and I am not exactly proud of it as I am much more of an “in your face” type of person. We had a pretty cool relationship. We helped each other and had each other’s back. The biggest issue however was her flakiness. She would set up a time to meet and when time comes she would not even text to cancel. Weeks would go by and then she will text again like nothing happened. I’ve called her out on it before. I told her of she did it again, our friendship would be on the line. She didn’t believe me. She did it one more time and I got fed up. We never spoke on the phone only text or in person. I told her that I wished her well but I will not reach out to her again. I blocked her from the little social media I am on and only left LinkedIn connection as we are both in the corporate world. I never heard back but since we live in the same town, I will not be surprised if I run into her sometime in the future.
When I got sub text, I was clearly not going to let my boyfriend break up with me. No. So, knowing he kind of person he is, I knew exactly what to do to rescue the relationship. What I did was I knew my boyfriend would wait for my response before he does something further after his breakup message. So I left it alone for 2days to make him calm down. Because I knew he made the decision to fast without giving it a thorough thought. So I left it alone for 2days then typed everything I wanted to say to him down. So I just told him that I love him and I wouldn’t want us to break the promise that if we still love each other we should always keep fighting no matter what. And also tell him why I behaved the certain way that I did. And gave him the last say about it, that wasn’t me begging him to take me back but just told him how I felt. And if he didn’t text me back then I would have knew that he won’t change his mind.
So what I advice you to do is just tell him how you feel without sounding like you are forcing that person to take you back and let them decide on their own if they still want that relationship or not.