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There’s a guy I just met, he’s been a great guy and I like him. Well, he has two kids from his ex wife, but no big deal. Lately, he’s been so heavy on being a “traditional man”, as much as that sounds like a red flag to me, I’d like to chill and try to know the meaning before I make my decision on him.
Your question seems really vague though, but if I understand you quite well, being a traditional man means his views of the world are totally different. He might not be open minded to accept so many things. His views will greatly differ from yours. He can’t be submissive because he will see himself as the head and may never want to apologize. If you two have different opinions, best know you will always crash all the time.
That depends on how far his traditionalism goes. You will definitely have to find that out, and then think hard about whether you can live with it or not. Most times, his opinions on issues will be archaic. He’s going to expect you to provide all the meals and do all the kitchen chores while he sits around and watches TV. You’re being expected to keep the house spotless all by yourselff while he goofs around. He might request that you quit your job to focus on the kids and expected to leave all financial and investment decisions to him? Being questioned about where you go and who you were with?
This is what being a traditional man entails really, so you may want to think well and make your choice.