Growing up, my parents had my sister open the door of her room. Under no circumstance could she lock the door, it was kind of crazy because they allowed myself and my brother(younger) lock ours, well not like they didn’t enforce it on us too but we got away with locking ours. I really wish parents could stop this cos it’s really so petty. Yikesss
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I really think all parents need to chill out a bit! Cos what!!! Stop interfering in your kid’s personal space, they are not exactly smoking or masturbating all the time, leave them alone. Stop judging them. A lot of stress starts at home when your parents judge you for everything you do.
Start Complimenting and appreciating things your kids do, a little appreciation doesn’t hurt anyone. You will help boost their courage.
I wish parents could actually make their decision whether they trust their kids or not. Growing up, I wished my parents would mind their own goddamn business.
They would, at times, look through my computer and devices and read my private conversations I have with my friends. It’s extremely vexing, it’s like they can’t trust me.
I have private conversations for a reason, either it is personal to me or the other person. That’s why they’re private. By reading through them my parents can know what the other person is telling me. This other person trusts me enough to tell me, and now my parents know because they snoop around on my devices. It makes me feel like an untrustworthy person and I hate it. Even though it’s not really my fault. I still feel bad.
It’s not like I’m doing anything bad either, just talking to my friends online and they think that’s a bad thing… I don’t understand it.
I feel like I can’t be trusted by them, yet they say they trust me. It seems twisted in my mind. They let me do these things and fake how much freedom I have, they say they trust me to not do stupid things online, yet they go behind my back and do this.
I also hate that they pry me for information at times. My mother asks way too many questions. Even if it’s just about homework, she just wants to be too involved in my life. If I want her to know something, I’ll tell her on my own and if she has to pry me for information, then obviously I don’t want to tell her.