I met my boyfriend at a house party organized my best friend’s brother. I met him wit some other group of boys who came from his college, he kinda clicked immediately and we were together through out the party. Five days later we started dating, my best friend thought it was rather too early, I thought it was sort of too early too. But he came off as the most romantic person I’ve ever met, he daily professes his love to me. We were such an inseparable duo during the first two months of our relationship. Recently, he’s started giving off some kind of traits which are so strange and if I won’t be going too far-toxic. He still shows me so much affection and all, but I cannot by help think something is not right. Suddenly it feels I am only pretending to enjoy his company. I’m no longer so eager to see him or speak to him. I don’t know if I’m just nervous about his new self or my feeling is totally normal.
What are the signs you see in your relationship that make you know the relationship is not healthy?
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First, how you felt while putting up that post is a huge sign of an unhealthy relationship. The signs are present already, you just probably haven’t seen them.
A relationship should not drain you, instead of feeling happy and productive, you’re always drained. Then it’s time to check that relationship twice.
Constant anger is also a sure sign of an unhealthy relationship. You should never be around hostility. It will only make you unsafe.
Lack of communication is the bedrock of all unhealthy relationships. Without communication, there is no relationship. Period.
If you’re constantly disrespected in a relationship, then you certainly have no business in that relationship.
Also, a healthy relationship should motivate you to always want to be a better version of yourself. If your relationship isn’t this, move further away.
You’re experiencing abuse of all kinds-verbal, emotional and physical abuse are all major traits of an unhealthy relationship. Walk away before it’s too late.
If your opinion doesn’t count in a relationship, then you are probably not in that relationship.
The earlier you look out for these signs in your relationship the earlier you can salvage such relationship or get out of it. Know this and know peace.
First, no relationship is perfect. But a good relationship makes you feel secure, happy, respected and free to be yourself. If you don’t feel any of these in your relationship, you’re most likely in an unhealthy relationship. Watch out for these helpful signs in your relationship to know if it’s a healthy one or not;
1. If you notice your relationship is all about taking, no giving, it’s an unhealthy one. Any relationship in which you only experience withdrawals without deposits will leave you empty.
2. If your relationship lacks trust, you won’t get anywhere with such relationship.
3. Judgmental relationships where there is constant criticisms will only belittle you.
4. If mutual reliability is missing, the relationship isn’t for you. Mutual reliability is the core of any good and healthy relationship.
5. If your partner is just interested in portraying themself in the relationship, it is impossible to achieve any kind of balance in such relationship.
6. If your relationship is loaded with negative energy, almost impossible for anything positive to come from it. Please run
7. If you spend time avoiding each other, what then are you doing in such relationship in the first place?
8. Never ending drama-good relationships improve your life, they don’t get it messier.
9. If your patent is never supportive of your progress or always brimming with envy. The relationship isn’t for you.
10. Your happiness comes first, if the relationship doesn’t make you happy. Then, it is not healthy.
You really have a nice point…