How do you notice red flags if you’re in a long distance relationship?
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How do you notice red flags if you’re in a long distance relationship?
Long distance relationships rarely work out. You’re unable to date because of the distance between you. You’re always wondering where he is. You’re always afraid that he will cheat on you. You begin to hound him about his whereabouts and are on the phone constantly checking up on him. He or you may very well be cheating on each other because of boredom. In time, when you’ve both found new love, you will forget the old one.
If they don’t put in the effort, and don’t seem like they value your time or you as a person. They only seem interested in the sexual aspect of the relationship (if romantic) or use you whichever way you are useful to them. They don’t prioritize spending time together. They want your communication and interaction to be on their terms and their terms only. They go hot and cold on you. They can’t make up their mind about what the nature of your relationship is. They don’t respect your boundaries or try to push them. They invalidate your feelings. They make you feel unsafe around them. They make you feel easily replaceable. They always wait for you to initiate. They don’t seem interested in meeting up. Any sort of anger issues, emotional immaturity or any sort of abusive tendencies.