why would any guy want to go Dutch with a lady he’s having a date with for the first time? The first person to request for the date should be one to cover the tab.
Ira AndrewsNew You
Should a guy go Dutch with a lady he’s having a date with for the first time?
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I’ll dare say this, instead of probably embarrassing yourself and your date, why don’t you go somewhere calm, not expensive but public still. There are so many date ideas that don’t require you to spend up to a $100 even. I am more of an indoor person, but for the sake of a first date, I’d like my date to not think I’m trying to impress her by taking her to an expensive place, it even helps in your Favour, you’re supposed to get to know each other during the first date, not spend ridiculous amount of money trying to please. You may not even get to meet each other again after that.
Going Dutch with a lady you’re going on a date with for the first time is such a douche move. I am a lady, I will not allow to go Dutch with you especially if you’re the one who requested for the date. Can I cover my own tabs? Yes, 100%. But will I help cover the tab for our first date that you requested? No. It’s pretty simple, go to cheap place where you won’t have to spend way above your pocket. The very funny thing is, you don’t even need to break your bank before you impress most women.
Godspeed dear.