how can I communicate this to him?
Brittanie StricklandSocial Butterfly
my boyfriend tells his friends about what we do in bed, I feel violated what can I do?
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how can I communicate this to him?
I don’t really know why you care. It’s sex, at the end of the day it’s between you both unless you end up having a threesome or something. So what if you had a shower together? Plenty of couples shower together. Basically I think you’re over reacting, and you need to relax and trust him a bit otherwise you’ll lose him. Like you said, you only heard how he said you had a shower together. Trust is a major thing in a relationship, if you don’t have it then what do you have? If he cares for you he wouldn’t blab about something so personal. Sit him down and ask him specifically what they were talking about so you can calm yourself down instead of being mad over something that’s not worth arguing about.
Maybe you need to discuss with him where the boundaries lie when you discuss that stuff with your friends. Personally I think he could be boasting to his friends. Women do that too with a close group. Still, that being said, I think there is a boundary and he’s clearly upset you here, so you need to discuss this so he won’t do it again.