How do I figure out what my “je ne sais quoi” is?
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Your “je ne sais quoi” lies in your strength, it’s your extra spice, something only you can pull off. Possessing je ne sais quoi isn’t about trying to impress others and do more.
Really, it’s about being you, which is about doing less and enjoying more. Focus on your strength and on things you can control. Be authentic, and natural. Don’t force vibes or something, simply do you. You will definitely figure yours out.
I will give little insight into what worked and works for me, perhaps it can be of benefit to you too in channeling your je ne sais quoi. Accentuate your strengths, focus your energy on what you have going on, rather than what you think you need to adjust. Stop trying to look like a twig and rock what you have.
If you have great sense of humor, pls do make people laugh, don’t try to be the sophisticated one. Don’t hide who you are, embarrass yourself and make it your signature.
Remember: you don’t need to be fixed. You need to own what you have. Bring passion to everything you do. Passion is within you and is the essence of what you bring to life. The world is intrigued by passionate people.