No, we are not getting married but he says that’s his baby too
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I just found out I am pregnant, I do not want the baby but my boyfriend wants me to keep it, what should I do?
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If you do not want to continue the pregnancy than you should terminate it. No one should force themselves or another person to give birth/parent because birth control failed or wasn’t used. Making the best choice for yourself based on your physical, emotional, and financial place in life is being a responsible adult. You should not be guilted or shamed into continuing a pregnancy. Children should be brought into happy, loving, committed relationships.
As a man who should’ve been a father a had it taken from me, he will resent you for it. Whether he thinks that abortion is wrong or that he just really wants the child, you will ruin your relationship with this guy. If you are fine with letting him go and not takin responsibility for your decisions together then get the abortion. But if you wanna keep him in your life and you think the two of you will live well enough with this child and be good parents then take responsibility for your actions and have the baby. Or maybe you just don’t wanna be a mom and that’s understandable. Well he wants to be a dad and you helped to create this life.