I don’t wanna kick this person but I want him to stop calling me, respectfully. How do I make this happen?
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I don’t wanna kick this person but I want him to stop calling me, respectfully. How do I make this happen?
If you’re going to cut contact with someone then at the very least, you should give an explanation before you cut contact. Simply ghosting is very cowardly and IMO makes you a terrible person. I’ve been ghosted before and it sucks. I’m on the autism spectrum and I highly value honesty and directness. I don’t pick up on subtle hints easily and I would rather someone just tell me if they have an issue with me, so I can work on it instead of keeping it to themselves and eventually just cutting me off.
First, who is this person to you? I would not advocate for ghosting him or telling him to fuck off. I would rather ask that you be clear with him, that you aren’t into phone conversations, and put some structure around how you want to communicate with him – but years from now, this is the kind of friend who will stick with you, and when you’re older, you learn to appreciate other people despite their annoying tendencies.