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I left my cheating husband but he still wants to see our kids, I do not want them to be around him, should I deny him custody?
Solely on the basis of his inability to be a proper partner? No, but, if his cheating alters/inhibits his ability to function as a father, then yes. (In my opinion). My father loved kids. Loved women, and to my knowledge he has two sons outside of my sisters and I, He loved the glory of being called a father. But he was a cheater and an alcoholic. He was a great father though and my mother for that reason always tolerated his presence.
I would never want to deny my kids a father. So many children do not have fathers and this absence leaves a hole in their lives. Children need a daddy. I am very sorry your husband cheated, but denying him access to his kids is you being vindictive. You want to punish him which is understandable but it is wrong to use your children to do so.