I’m a gay, and I’ve found myself finding teenage boys very attractive. I don’t want to pass as a pervert, what do I do?
p.s that’s not my real name. #hidingidentity
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It is normal. If you feel guilty about it, that’s also normal. Obviously it depends on the individual. Some boys blossom early and some don’t. I know a few teenage boys who do not have to present their I.D. before they are allowed into a club However, don’t be fooled by their looks. Mentally they are immature. It may be normal to be attracted to them, but acting on this, is not.
You’re not a pedophile. It’s normal. It’s the reason there are porn categories such as teen and petite. The bad thing about underage is really not the physical attraction, because as others have pointed out, the physical development is there. It is the perversion of an underage person or people that is bad.
But if you want to not be as attracted to underaged boys, just think more of regular men and less of younger women. Be persistent, eventually you will get there. You will probably never be completely unattracted to young looking guys, but you will be a lot less interested in them.