Can I truly love someone I’m not physically attracted to? But mentally attracted to? Mentally— in terms of how they talk, how they think, how they often project to be solution provider, and all of that.
How feasible is it for me to be in love with someone I’m mentally drawn to but not physically attracted to?
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If you are not attracted to someone physically, it makes it difficult to kiss, make love etc. Physical attraction is not only physical, it’s also attraction of energies. So it could be while you are not attracted to him like purely based on how he looks, it could be that you grow in to finding him attractive because of his energy, his soul, his personality. Stay open minded. When it doesn’t work, it doesn’t. In the end in order to go have a romantic relationship this kind of attraction is vital.
Of course, it’s possible. We all feel beautiful. It’s not only our physical attributes that matter but our total personality or traits as a person. We may look beautiful to our friend but others may not agree because they have their own basis or ideals of what a beautiful person is.
Some are quite prejudiced that when they see beautiful woman, they automatically question what kind of personality she has. They think that a beautiful woman outside may not be beautiful inside or in other words her trait may not be good or admirable. Some men fall for one who may not be so attractive but they’re after their character or traits. Others choose one who is not pretty but there’s something in her he got attracted to like her simple ways, her grace, good nature and behavior. It’s not all beauty that counts, each person has their own unique, charming, and attractive traits for one to admire him/her as a partner. Some may fall for one who is brainy or talented. As we know beauty is only skin-deep and may wane in time but the traits of a person is lasting and may last forever.