how do you deal with someone who never shows you regards or respect?
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Be your own person. Stop pretending to be someone else, don’t act to social standards this is social suicide. Thank you sir, yes mam blah blah blah, thank you this thank you that, if that’s not who you are then that’s not who you need to be, if it doesn’t feel right to your stomach then don’t do it. Your emotions is enough to display gratitude. This doesn’t mean to reveal everything about you, just be you without reveal much about yourself.
Make sure when you speak you sound loud, clear and Assertive relative to your surroundings, you don’t want to be yelling but you don’t want to be whispering either, what you don’t want is for them to tell you “say that again?” “What?’ With aggression.
Say what you mean, don’t sugar coat things, you are not a people pleaser, the moment you please people they will have you by the balls this doesn’t mean to treat them like crap, why is this effective? Because when you say things that you mean, you are showing confidence
Don’t just take it when someone is mistreating you, or taking advantage of you. Be diplomatic, but don’t be silent. Speaking up for yourself is not always easy to do, which is why it is the mark of a person deserving respect. Be relentlessly proactive (Don’t always wait for direction from others. Use your own skills and resources to start getting things done and solve problems. Get in the habit of figuring things out for yourself. Don’t be afraid of a challenge once in a while. Make sure to curb your instant reactions to things that make you highly emotional—whether it is good or bad. Sure, it’s OK to be yourself and show enthusiasm. But remember that good leaders and well-respected people know the difference between responding and reacting.