Sometimes, jealousy in a partner can be cute and loving, but what happens when they become dangerously jealous? How do you cope?
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Sometimes, jealousy in a partner can be cute and loving, but what happens when they become dangerously jealous? How do you cope?
First, I think it’s normal, to feel a little bit jealous. If a guy has a girlfriend he really likes, the worst thing that might happen to him is to lose her. So in general, he will act protective and feel insecure whenever situations arise in which it’s unclear if his girlfriend is really ‘his’.
For instance, suppose you go to a party with your boyfriend and then you start talking with a bunch of other guys, maybe there is even some touching hugs and kisses involved, I think any guy will feel kind of uncertain although not all guys will express it. The most important thing is to express to him how you feel about him, so he feels secure. It’s not a matter of saying this once, you have to reconfirm this regularly because beneath the surface of acting jealous, this feeling is mostly stirred by feeling insecure. It’s the same with ladies right. Suppose your boyfriend starts chatting up with a lady you feel is more attractive than you. Well, won’t you start to feel a little uncertain maybe he is being seduced and would succumb to that? You need to make him feel secure by expressing it, give him attention and make him feel as being your boyfriend he is the most important guy in the world to you. That is the feeling he is craving for- to feel secure.
Honestly, just ignore him. They will get over it. Jealousy is just the manifestation of an insecurity. So he or she not as smart as they think they are. No matter what you think you know there is always someone who knows just a little more than you do, and someone else that knows a little more than them.