People with vengeful character are always unforgiving, they don’t forgive, instead they make sure they retaliate in a very hurtful way.
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People with vengeful character are always unforgiving, they don’t forgive, instead they make sure they retaliate in a very hurtful way.
Forgive yourself first, then dig deep into why you are so angry and hurt. It seems you are very sensitive and that you expect others to feel the same way you do. When people don’t agree with your ways you dismiss them and think it’s their problem, not yours. Unfortunately, it is your problem and if you don’t want to be alone for the rest of your life, you need to change your behavior. If you truly want to love and be open to real relationships, it will take some work on your part. Try to see the good in others and try to be empathetic. Most of all, if you expect others to respect you, then you must also respect them even if their point of view differs from yours.
I think you have to learn how to forgive offenses and offenders and trust God to be the one who executes justice. Justice is a good thing, so it feels good when we think justice has been served. However, it’s never our place to judge and condemn the people who hurt us. It’s not our place to execute justice. God promises to do that, and He can always be trusted to keep His promises. I think in order to stop taking vengeance into your own hands, you have you have to put your hope in God and trust Him instead of yourself. You might think you’re good at getting back at the people who wrong you, but God is infinitely better. You can always trust Him to work everything out.