I just moved in with my boyfriend and he checks my phone all the time and when I try to confront him, he beats me and says nasty stuff to me. How do I make him stop?
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I just moved in with my boyfriend and he checks my phone all the time and when I try to confront him, he beats me and says nasty stuff to me. How do I make him stop?
You don’t need to stop him from snooping through your phone. End the relationship. For your own mental peace and wellbeing, end the relationship with him. Only then, can you be at peace with yourself. If it gets too dangerous, you can involve the police. That’s very scary
Hi Ruby, you really are in a very unhealthy and abusive relationship. I would ask that how come you didn’t notice these traits in your boyfriend before you agreed to move in with him, but I realized a lot of conditions might have made you do that. Also, it’s very possible you didn’t know about that side of him before loving in with him. However, I’ll give you my sincere opinion on how to deal with the situation; you simply need to break off from the relationship. It is very unhealthy, if it’s not about something productive or something y’all are doing together on your phone, your boyfriend has no business with your personal phone. Also, if he could be tracking you through your phone, then you should know you might likely be in danger. That is because it is a common trait of an obsessive partner. You can talk to few of your friends, at least one would be able to accommodate you for a while before you get yourself together. I’m not sure how your boyfriend is going to take the new of you breaking up with him, but you really need to do so. Whichever way you can think of, the earlier the better.