Oftentimes when I get into a new relationship, it’s gets all rosy and sweet for a while only for me to start getting so bored and in the next minute I want out. How do I deal with this feeling?
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Oftentimes when I get into a new relationship, it’s gets all rosy and sweet for a while only for me to start getting so bored and in the next minute I want out. How do I deal with this feeling?
I don’t think that I have ever become bored in a relationship. I know that I have become quite annoyed by a person I dated, and so I have stopped dating them. Keep in mind that if you are becoming bored, you will need to figure out what it is that is placing you and your partner in a rut. Have either of you just become complacent in the relationship? Is there lack of passion and connection between the two of you. Once you know why it is that you are bored, then it’d be easier to know how to fix it.
If you two are doing the same thing day in and day out, you will start to feel bored and stuck. So don’t forget to plan something fun for the future, such as a vacation or a project you can work on together. Just like people need promotions in their work in order to feel challenged and rewarded, couples need to feel that same adrenaline rush in a relationship.
Choose a goal, and chat about the steps you’ll take to get there. Planning dates, an event, or a project together ignites companionship and appreciation. Even if it’s just a quick weekend trip or a simple dinner party at home, if you have something to be excited about on the horizon, it will make your relationship that much more interesting.