A narcissistic parent is extremely selfish and self-centered. He sees his children, as well as everyone else, not as persons, with their own personalities, needs and feelings. They are merely objects that exist only ti serve his purposes, an extension of themselves. He is capable of permanently harming his own children to get what he wants. When his childen fail to do so, he severely punishes them. He is incapable of empathy, so he will abuse and make his children feel lime crap, even when they are good, and often grow up woth severe guilt, low self-esteem, or even turn into psychos and narcisists themselves.