There are some life changes that can affect your child’s behavioral pattern; any change in a child’s life can be difficult for them. This could be the birth of a new baby, moving house, a change of environment, starting a new school, among others. It’s is your duty as a parent to help restore them back to their normal self. What you do has to be right for your child, yourself and the family. If you do something you do not believe in or that you do not feel is right, it probably will not work. Children notice when you do not mean what you’re saying. Then, once you’ve decided to do something, continue to do it. Solutions take time to work. Get support from your partner or another parent. It’s good to have someone to talk to about what you’re doing. Children need consistency. If you react to your child’s behaviour in one way one day and a different way the next, it’s confusing for them. It’s also important that everyone close to your child deals with their behaviour in the same way.
When your child does something annoying time after time, your anger and frustration can build up. Try to control how to react to your your child does. It is impossible not to show your irritation sometimes, but try to stay calm. Move on to other things you can both enjoy or feel good about as soon as possible. Children do not have to be able to talk to understand. It can help if they understand why you want them to do something. For example, explain why you want them to hold your hand while crossing the road.
Once your child can talk, encourage them to explain why they’re angry or upset. This will help them feel less frustrated. When a child’s behaviour is difficult, the things they do well can be overlooked. Tell your child when you’re pleased about something they’ve done. You can let your child know when you’re pleased by giving them attention, a hug or a smile. You can praise them or give them their favourite food.
If your child behaves well, tell them how pleased you are. Be specific. Say something like nice and encouraging to them.