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How do you easily detect an undercover cop?
One of the things to look for when you are wanting to spot undercover police officers is look at their hair. Police officers often have very short hair cuts that are kept nice and neat. That is not fool proof though because if they are dealing with drug dealers for instance, they won’t be nice and nRead more
One of the things to look for when you are wanting to spot undercover police
See lessofficers is look at their hair. Police officers often have very short hair cuts that are kept nice and neat. That is not fool proof though because if they are dealing with drug dealers for instance, they won’t be nice and neat or they would stand out like a sore thumb among the people they are watching and dealing with. As for their cars, the cars they drive, if the cars belong to the police department are very plain. They are just the basic car with no frills. Keep in mind though. If the police are trying to catch someone that they know will recognize
their undercover vehicles they are not above using their own vehicle. Once they catch the person, they can just hold them and call for a cruiser car to come and pick the person up.
How do you deal with parents who do not accept the fact that you’re homosexual?
I’m sorry that your parents are struggling so hard to understand you, and that you’re internalizing their struggle even as you rail against it. But you might not have to lose each other over their terror and your pain. You see, just as they don’t understand you, you don’t understand them. I’m in noRead more
I’m sorry that your parents are struggling so hard to understand you, and that you’re internalizing their struggle even as you rail against it. But you might not have to lose each other over their terror and your pain.
See lessYou see, just as they don’t understand you, you don’t understand them. I’m in no way condoning their hurtful and intolerant behavior. Instead, I’d like to shed some light on what their internal experience might be like, so that no matter how you decide to move forward, you’ll be coming from a less injured and more centered place.
The truth, your parents’ reaction began long before you were born. It started where most parent-child relationships begin, which is to say, in your parents’ fantasies. Most people who want children have certain ideas, developed over the course of years, about what it will be like to raise a child, and who that child will be. And most of the time, parents-to-be don’t realize how specific these expectations they’ve been carrying around really are. Your parents aren’t trying to torture you or cause you pain — they’re trying, in their misguided way, to save you from pain.
Perhaps they think that being homosexual means that you will face prejudice and hatred — and sadly, because homophobic people are out there, they may be right. It won’t be easy, but if you give up now, you will never get to see how the story unfolds. It might also be that they will never understand.