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Have you ever bought any item from a store just to make the cashier uncomfortable?
The other day during my lunch break at work, I decided to buy a banana for lunch. I remembered that I’d planned to visit another store after work to purchase some pantyliners so I headed over to the personal care section, as I picked up the pantyliners I saw the petroleum jelly. That reminded me thaRead more
The other day during my lunch break at work, I decided to buy a banana for lunch. I remembered that I’d planned to visit another store after work to purchase some pantyliners so I headed over to the personal care section, as I picked up the pantyliners I saw the petroleum jelly. That reminded me that my psoriasis had been itchy all day so I grabbed it as well and headed to the checkout. The cashier frowned a bit but didn’t comment as she scanned the items and I paid. As I collected my stuff and headed to the door, I heard an odd choking noise behind me, as I looked back, it was the cashier and the other person trying to pay for some items bought laughing at me and pointing at my stuff
See lessThat’s when it hit me. I’m a female and I’d just purchased a banana, some petroleum jelly, and a package of pantyliners.
How can I stay away from an obsessive lover?
There are lots of women in this kind of tough situation. Simply saying no will not work. Sometimes if you are especially mean to him, then he will go away. It can also however have the opposite effect. It can in some cases make him even more obsessed, in other cases it will turn the obsession into sRead more
There are lots of women in this kind of tough situation. Simply saying no will not work. Sometimes if you are especially mean to him, then he will go away. It can also however have the opposite effect. It can in some cases make him even more obsessed, in other cases it will turn the obsession into something malevolent.
See lessMost stalkers are more annoying than dangerous. They can persist for years and create huge amounts of stress. My suggestion is to keep record of everything. Screen shot every message sent, both sides. Remember stalkers obsessively keep records, so they will have the whole conversation. If you show a snippet that makes them look bad but the rest of the conversation shows they were set up, or manipulated into that, then you will lose all credibility. So keep a copy of the entire conversation. Keep anything he leaves for you. Notes, presents, etc. Document time and day he contacts you in a log. Make sure others have copies of every bit of this. Every few days or at least once a week give a couple people you trust the entire body of evidence to hold for you in case something happens to your phone, home, computer, etc.
Clearly and explicitly in written form say you are not interested. Stop all contact. Send by registered mail if you can.
Then if he continues to contact you file a restraining order. You’ll probably get turned down but the attempt to do so will be documented. Continue to make attempts until he ceases.
If he continues long enough sue him. That’s one consequence. If you have mean/tough friends. A friendly word can help as well. Just be sure it’s just words.
Get a gun. Learn how to shoot it. Most are harmless but a few turn out to be rather dangerous and you never really know which is which until something happens.
Be alert to being watched. Especially when coming and going from work and any other place you routinely go. Shake up your routine sometimes. Change things around.
If you have mutual friends and he continues to harass you embarrass him publicly by posting his words on their timelines.