You should first find out the reason you turned to porn in the first place. What was missing. When you find that out deal with that problem. This is how true healing can begin. Otherwise you will just be a person who is avoiding watching porn and will eventually relapse. Porn is not the problem. The problem is you are using it to fill a hole.

When I was young I was more than a bit shy, I was afraid of people. If approached I was polite but I could not make eye contact and could barely speak above a whisper. I tried to make friends, sometimes I was accepted but then overlooked because I was so quiet. After high school, I worked up enough courage to attend a small college. There too I was often overlooked. Some things did improve during my college years, I got to where I could make eye contact and speak above a whisper. Then came the time I was dreading graduation. After graduation it was time to find a job. Interviewers are not impressed by people who are too nervous to sit still. After several dozen nausea inducing interviews I finally relaxed enough to convince someone to take a chance on hiring me. Finally working I had no choice but to talk to my boss and coworkers. Over the years I managed to project enough of an air of confidence to seize opportunitys for advancement. Surprisingly with every raise and promotion my confidence increased, and so did my ability to interact with complete strangers. It was not something I noticed, but one day a very close friend told me she was proud of how far I had come over the years. That is why my advise to you is give yourself time, in the meantime take advantage of opportunities that come along to broaden your horizons and continue to grow and advance.