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How do you handle discovering new disgusting things about your spouse after getting married?
Few weeks into our marriage, my husband started acting very suspicious, very antsy and not his normal self. I had to ask him several times what’s wrong until I cornered him & said “We got married for better or for worse, for sickness & in health, so if you can’t tell me what is going on youRead more
Few weeks into our marriage, my husband started acting very suspicious, very antsy and not his normal self. I had to ask him several times what’s wrong until I cornered him & said “We got married for better or for worse, for sickness & in health, so if you can’t tell me what is going on you are breaking the first cardinal rule to marriage.” The first words out of his mouth are “your going to divorce me.” With that being said he let everything out. My husband is in $240,000 debts for gambling! He was bouncing around between 2 loan sharks and got in over his head to the point he couldn’t pay either one. They wanted their money, they were after him. He had to tell me because if he didn’t I was going to find out very soon, and it wouldn’t be good. What was my response? I was numb. I was robbed from the happiest time of my life. I married someone I didn’t know, yet I could finish his sentences. I am still numb. I am going through my daily life, wearing my 3 karat engagement ring with my newly sparkly diamond wedding band, being asked how amazing married life is yet I want to move to a different country & crawl up into a ball and hide.
See lessWhat I can say is, do not be naive like me. Enjoying the best life I could and never getting down to serious things such as opening joint bank accounts, or even asking how much money he makes a week. He could afford this lifestyle so why would I question it? I just found this out 3 days ago and everything is still processing. Am I going to divorce him? I want to. But what about the vows we took? Do I break them and start all over again? I have so many unanswered questions that I have to figure out, and figure them out quick. He doesn’t have a dime in his savings and already took out $10,000 out of our wedding money to shut one guy up until he figures out a plan.
If I find nude pictures and videos of my daughter on her phone, should I delete them?
This is a sign of an adult or older teenager talking to her! Have a talk with her about her body being for her and a special person she is to choose when she grows older. Ask her if she has a boyfriend/girlfriend. If she says yes, ask their age. A lot of kids don't know it's wrong, so, unless the peRead more
This is a sign of an adult or older teenager talking to her! Have a talk with her about her body being for her and a special person she is to choose when she grows older. Ask her if she has a boyfriend/girlfriend. If she says yes, ask their age. A lot of kids don’t know it’s wrong, so, unless the person told her not to tell, she will probably tell you. If you still don’t have an answer, go through her social media apps. Only go through the chat with the person she is sending these pictures to, and don’t read every message. If you find their age and they’re above the age of consent wherever you live, you can report them to the authorities. If they did something without consent, you can report them. You can also report them for child pornography.
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