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What do you think about ladies who take booty calls but would never regard themselves as prostitutes?
It has nothing to do about being worse or better, a prostitute accepts money for sex, a person or a woman that accepts booty calls either has a very high libido and is free of attachments and commitment and explores those. Or the much more common reason is that they need sexual intercourse as a wayRead more
It has nothing to do about being worse or better, a prostitute accepts money for sex, a person or a woman that accepts booty calls either has a very high libido and is free of attachments and commitment and explores those.
See lessOr the much more common reason is that they need sexual intercourse as a way to seek some form of validation that they are attractive.
Unfortunately there’s a double standard between men and women and how society perceives them when they accept booty calls.
A man is a stud, a woman is a slut.
It’s not fair, nor is it right. But it’s less common for a woman to habitually seek sexual gratification from acquaintances, than a man.
Sometimes it has to do with self-respect, and when they feel that they have no respect they seek it by engaging in sexual practices to gain that respect which is a complete falsehood.
Because it never fills you with self-respect, it just perpetuates your reputation.
Have you ever seen a therapist concerning your mental health?
I’ve visited three therapists all my life. I’ve learned things from them, so I’d say something positive came from it. However, I do think that I could have gotten a lot more from therapy had my therapists understood more about how to make me feel safe telling the truth. In my experience, therapistsRead more
I’ve visited three therapists all my life. I’ve learned things from them, so I’d say something positive came from it. However, I do think that I could have gotten a lot more from therapy had my therapists understood more about how to make me feel safe telling the truth. In my experience, therapists don’t talk about their role, nor do they mention the importance of feeling safe and how they try to help clients feel safe so they can talk about everything they need to talk about. I don’t know why my therapists never discussed this crucial issue. Perhaps they didn’t know about it. Perhaps they were trained not to talk about it. Who knows? I am a peer facilitator, and I think the issue of safety is crucial for people to be able to talk about whatever they need to talk about. So in my group, we start each meeting talking about the importance of feeling safe and what we do (and don’t do) in order to try to make this space as safe as possible, while acknowledging that there is no such thing as total safety. I don’t know what therapists do to create safety because no one ever brought up the issue in any session I had. As a result, I would say that although I learned things in therapy, I could have learned so much more if the issue of safety had been worked on explicitly.
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