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At what point did you realize it was time you cut off a person from your life?
Actually you can cut off anyone whenever you want. You do not have to justify why or why not you are choosing to continue a relationship with someone. However, to not be looked upon as a bitter person, you should probably have some solid reason why you want to cut someone off. There's an old mantraRead more
Actually you can cut off anyone whenever you want. You do not have to justify why or why not you are choosing to continue a relationship with someone. However, to not be looked upon as a bitter person, you should probably have some solid reason why you want to cut someone off. There’s an old mantra I use in my daily living; if something doesn’t suit your needs, make you grow, or make you a better person, then it no longer serves you. This applies to people as well, of course. I stopped drinking and smoking a few years ago. This completely changed all of my friendships, as in they didn’t last. I tried to stay friends with some, but their lifestyles were just not something that meshed well with my new way of living. But this holds true on both sides of our coin. I know being friends with this set of people will definitely drag me back to my old way of life. Same thing goes with my mother. These relationships are not making me a better person and are only hurting me and my progress. It’s not easy, but it’s better than nursing a toxic relationship.
See lessIs it always the case that those who get out of a relationship and move on fine and fast are always the cause?
No, that’s such a huge assumption. Have this scenario play in you’re head; if you were in a relationship with a narc, a very toxic one where you’re abused emotionally, physically and sexually, it affects you and mess you up. Big time. You may not be willing to leave such relationship as you might beRead more
No, that’s such a huge assumption. Have this scenario play in you’re head; if you were in a relationship with a narc, a very toxic one where you’re abused emotionally, physically and sexually, it affects you and mess you up. Big time. You may not be willing to leave such relationship as you might be making excuses for your narc partner and hope they change. However, when hey don’t change, you get to a point where you wish the whole relationship dissolves. You do everything in your power to end the relationship, for your own peace of mind. You see, at that moment, you’re already over that person and the relationship, all you want is just to get out of it. When you centrally get out of such toxic relationship, you become free and begin to explore life in a whole new dimension. It doesn’t make you the bad person or the cause of the crash.
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