Narcissists are arrogant and preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited self-importance, success, and power and hey exaggerate their accomplishments and popularity. They exploit and take advantage of people for personal gain. They pit people against each other to get what they want—they divide people to conquer and gain power over them. They manipulate others by influencing emotions like fear and anger, and with threats and lies. Narcissists make others miserable and get aggressive with people who won’t give them the agreement, admiration, and respect they feel entitled to, expecting automatic compliance. How then can these characteristics be justified? There are lots of adults who had very rough and tough childhood, but they never grew to be narcissistic in nature. It is a choice, a choice that was made from the belief that “I am and will always be better than others”. Even though there is a close relationship between narcissism and bullying, but the latter does not justify the former.