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    1. Asked: October 5, 2020In:

      What is your greatest fear?

      Carla
      Carla

      I have the fear of becoming physically disabled. When I see persons with one physical disability or the other, I put myself in their shoes and think about how my life would be if I had any physical disability or the other. P.S I am not insinuating that physical disability is eh end of life or the woRead more

      I have the fear of becoming physically disabled. When I see persons with one physical disability or the other, I put myself in their shoes and think about how my life would be if I had any physical disability or the other.
      P.S I am not insinuating that physical disability is eh end of life or the worst that could happen to anyone. I am only implying that physical disability is my biggest fear.

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    2. Asked: October 5, 2020In:

      How do I tell someone about their horrific body odor?

      Carla
      Carla

      Telling someone they smell bad probably feel awkward, not imagine how the person you’re telling will feel like. Sometimes, it’s not in our place to tell people they smell bad, however, if you’re going to tell someone they smell bad, show some empathy. Do not be rude while doing it. As it is a very sRead more

      Telling someone they smell bad probably feel awkward, not imagine how the person you’re telling will feel like. Sometimes, it’s not in our place to tell people they smell bad, however, if you’re going to tell someone they smell bad, show some empathy. Do not be rude while doing it. As it is a very sensitive discussion, pick a secluded place to tell them about this. Do not prolong the conversation such that it becomes too awkward. Know that it is never easy telling someone they smell bad, it takes courage to tell them and also takes courage to accept such revelation about oneself from another person.

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    3. Asked: October 5, 2020In:

      Have you ever been at a lowest point in your life?

      Carla
      Carla

      When I was 13, my dad took me to my mom, he couldn’t take care of me again cos of his wife (my step mom). My mom wasn’t exactly so happy to see me, she was living with her boyfriend in a small town. I wasn’t comfortable there either as her boyfriend was always having issues with me. I felt like a stRead more

      When I was 13, my dad took me to my mom, he couldn’t take care of me again cos of his wife (my step mom). My mom wasn’t exactly so happy to see me, she was living with her boyfriend in a small town. I wasn’t comfortable there either as her boyfriend was always having issues with me. I felt like a stranger, like she wasn’t my mom. One morning, I woke up to find the house empty. My mom and her boyfriend had left me. I was already 16 at that time. I couldn’t reach out to my dad, if he really wanted me, he wouldn’t have sent me to my mom. I felt so alone. I was rejected by my very own parents. I still live in the house my mom left me with, hoping that she shows up one day. I’ve still never seen my dad since he day he dropped me off, I never reached out to him and he’s never reached out either.

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