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How do I tell my grown son it’s high time he moved out of the house and started living on his own?
You have the power to remove him from your house. When children turn 18, parents are not legally obligated to provide for their adult children. If he won’t do anything around the house, you can tell him he either has to start contributing, or he can leave. Those are his choices. It is not up for debRead more
You have the power to remove him from your house. When children turn 18, parents are not legally obligated to provide for their adult children. If he won’t do anything around the house, you can tell him he either has to start contributing, or he can leave. Those are his choices. It is not up for debate. It is your home. You can do what you see fit. But do not let him continue to live there and freeload.
See lessYou handle it this way: “Either you contribute to the household if you want to remain living here, or you can pack your things and leave.”
Give him a time frame to improve. If he does not, you ask him to move out. If he has nowhere to go, it isn’t your problem. He is an adult. It is up to him to make the decision.
These sorts of questions always surprise me. It seems like common sense. But then again, I grew up in a household where we were made to contribute. No way would my parents accept this kind of behavior. I also didn’t live with my parents as an adult. I didn’t make excuses. I got whatever job I could and I struggled. I have been living away from them since I was 19 years old. Your adult child should not be allowed to live in your home and do nothing. Period. Unless someone is physically incapable of contributing, they should be. Not everything is a disorder or mental illness. We also shouldn’t have to coddle and talk to our adult children like they are babies. We need to stop viewing things as such and stop making excuses for ourselves and our children. Many People are just plain lazy or just do not care. That doesn’t mean something is mentally wrong with them. In fact, I am willing to bet that 8 times out of 10, this is the case. It means they have not yet learned how to be accountable for their lives. One of the best ways to teach them how to be accountable is to teach them harsh lessons.
How do you know if a demonic spirit is attached to you?
An evil spirit has to be sent, or called. So if one is attached to you either you called it or someone sent it to you. Spirits don’t exist in isolation. They need to get their energy from somewhere. If it is getting it from you, then you are allowing it, albeit unconsciously. If it is feeding from wRead more
An evil spirit has to be sent, or called. So if one is attached to you either you called it or someone sent it to you. Spirits don’t exist in isolation. They need to get their energy from somewhere. If it is getting it from you, then you are allowing it, albeit unconsciously. If it is feeding from whoever sent it, then it cannot be with you for long as it’s energy will run out.
See lessIf someone has sent it, it is intended to do maximum harm to you in as short a time as possible. You would probably be aware that something is very wrong. If it is attached to you, you may feel weak and run down and you may think you are having a lot of bad luck. That is the spirit causing it. You may not realize it is there.
To find out if a Spirit or demon is attacking you, pray. Pure and simple. Ask Jesus to take the spirit away. If you have faith, you may instruct the spirit to go in the name of Christ.
If your faith is in a good place it will go. If not ask someone who has that ability to chase it away.
And figure out why it is in your life. Shut the door on it. For if you do not, seven will return.